Monday, September 7, 2009

A Bitter-sweet Summer




I haven't posted much this Summer, and it has been a Summer to remember, for many reasons. We've had 3/4 of the birthdays for our little family (Juliet keeps asking when her birthday is coming), we've played together, we've pulled together, we've worked together, and we've mourned together. We are a little tired, some days we are a little sad, but we are closer as a family.


This was Charles's face for much of August. On August 1, day before my birthday, he noticed that he couldn't move one half of his face. That is a pretty scary symptom, so we rushed to the ER. Thankfully, it was not a stroke. He has Bell's Palsy. This caused the nerves in half of his face to stop working. For several weeks he just couldn't use that half of his face. The worst for him was the dryness in his right eye. Blinking took major effort, and did not happen unconsciously as it normally does. It is amazing how much we take blinking for granted. So, blink a few times, it is a blessing.


On Tuesday, August 11, Charles's Mom Margaret passed away. We had a memorial service for her that Saturday, which was a beautiful event, and a celebration of her life.



Here's Charles with his Bell's Palsy smirk. He sang an amazing solo, and spoke with the use of only half his face. You go, Honey.



Juliet loves her cousin Analita, who didn't mind playing with her during the visiting time. Thanks Analita!




I'm so lucky to be Mom to these two beautiful children.

Don't you just want to snuggle this cutey, and nuzzle into that fuzzy head?


With our major loss from our family, we did have one small gain. We welcomed Zucci, the giant Zucchini into our family. Juliet loves her dearly. Thanks Lisa, for bringing this new family member to us.


Good night...and peace to all our loved ones. May you find many pleasant surprises in your life (like giant zucchinis) and find yourself stronger from the less than pleasant surprises as well.

3 comments:

Emmy said...

Great post, Jess! I love you so much! And, you look STUNNING in those pictures with your kids. ..
Trials rock our world. . .and, it always amazes me that we can somehow come out on top through it all. .. a miracle in and of itself.

joyous said...

Hey Jessica!!! Your family is so sweet and your children are beautiful. I'm sorry for your loss this summer and I hope that Charles is doing better. It is great to see what you guys are up to. I hope the fall brings you wonderful things!!!

Anonymous said...

Zucci rules.